Malaysian customs and behaviour in Penang
Remember that topless bathing is prohibited
Penangites are amongst the friendliest Malaysians you could possibly meet. Saying that, however, there are still a few social faux pas and matters of etiquette in Penang that visitors should bear in mind whilst in town. Despite the majority of ethnic Chinese on the island, there is still a very high proportion of Muslims living in Penang who may be shocked by certain behaviour considered commonplace in the West.
It is important to dress conservatively around town, especially during the day or if sightseeing around the temples, churches, mosques or other places of worship. Shorts, sleeveless shirts or bikini tops may be fine in beach areas such as Batu Ferringhi, but around Georgetown it is wise to cover up or risk unwittingly causing offence. Remember that topless sunbathing is always forbidden no matter how isolated you may be, and dressing smartly when visiting government offices is always a wise move.
Although things tend to get a little more relaxed after the sun goes down, it is wise not to forget the same simple Penang customs still apply. Consuming hefty quantities of alcohol, as in most countries, may prompt disapproval. Being drunk in public is against the law in Malaysia so it is wise not to indulge too much during a night on the tiles. For more on Penang nightlife.
In general, Malaysians have adopted Western introduction formalities with a handshake and occasionally the swapping of business cards. If you have some business meetings during your time in Penang then it is usual to be suitably attired in a suit, despite the often scorching heat. When meeting Penangites socially it is important to avoid telling risqué jokes which may offend religious or cultural sensibilities or overly familiar displays of affection.
Malay women often wear headscarves
As with all Asian countries, it is wise to be deferential in social situations whilst avoiding arguments should conflict be beckoning. It is also important not to seem arrogant if speaking with the host of a social gathering. Outspoken political or religious viewpoints are generally to be circumnavigated as even innocent and straightforward pronouncements can be unexpectedly controversial or misunderstood through poor understanding or translation.
Visitors to Penang homes will normally be expected to remove their shoes. When visiting beaches or national parks one should show appropriate respect to the natural environment. Getting irate or impatient with Penangites is generally frowned upon and hardly ever managed to get things accomplished any quicker. And overt displays of affections should always be kept to a minimum.
Homosexuality is prohibited in Malaysia despite the emergence of a tiny number of gay entertainment venues. Despite this hesitant toleration of gay behaviour in urban areas, this is still an Islamic country and so homosexual visitors should not display their sexuality too openly.
Some of the unique local customs of Penang are as follows:
When greeting a lady, or more senior person, it is polite to give a shallow bow.
A shallow bow is warranted upon entering or exiting a place or passing someone, as it is interpreted as ‘excuse me’.
Similar to the West, ladies should be introduced first and men second.
Touching someone's head is taboo and should be avoided.
Inadvertently touching someone of the opposite sex should also be avoided.
To call an older person it is polite to refer to them as aunty (makcik) or uncle (pakcik).
Pushing people for rapid service in restaurants and bars is to be avoided as Penangites are very relaxed on the whole.
While the right hand is for eating, the other is for toilet duties so never consume food or touch people with the left.
